Posted by: Author | December 14, 2008

Hands that toiled for over 100 years …

First of all: Thank you to Les for this wonderful tribute link for Grandad:

The whole body from wingtip to wingtip is nothing more than your thought itself in a form you can see.

Break the chains of your thought and you break the chains of your body, too

I found a precious scrap of film of Grandad – taken on his last outing (October 18th 2008) at the Long Boat Cafe (one of our favourite places) on Budleigh Salterton sea front.  The sea front is less than 100 yards away from the nursing home he was in - so P and I could push his wheelchair out and up a steep slope (that slope used to continually remind us that we were not as fit as we thought we were!!) and then walk along the coastal path. Grandad loved to do that. He has a towel wrapped round his neck for warmth because I couldn’t find his scarf.

I hadn’t realised how weak Grandad was getting  – when I re-watched this film today I was reminded that he couldn’t even lift his cup of tea. These things happen so gradually that one doesn’t notice at the time. And his hands – look at his hands; they are hands that have toiled for over 100 years ….  he was 100 years and 2 months old when I filmed this video clip. He slurped his tea in this clip – and watching it today that made me smile.


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  1. For Jack…

    Fletcher’s Song

    R.I.P

  2. Dear Les,

    Thank you so much – you couldn’t have picked a more appropriate song (and I’m a lifelong fan of Neil Diamond).

    I’ve always loved this song and now I will be able to associate it with the wonderful thought of Grandad soaring above free – free from pain, free from old age and free from the inevitable loneliness that comes with age, however much you are loved by a grand-daughter.

    You couldn’t have known this – but there is a poem being read out loud at Grandad’s funeral / Life Celebration – that is a message from Grandad to P and me (his grandchild) and his great grandchildren & great great grandchildren. The poem mentions flying free – he wanted us to fly free – just as I want him to soar up to Heaven.

    Here it is:

    BE

    BE ALL I COULD HAVE WISHED FOR
    BE EVERYTHING I KNOW YOU CAN
    BE HAPPY, BE ALIVE, BE MORE …
    BE MORE THAN JUST (A WOMAN) OR MAN
    BE LIVING EVERY MOMENT
    BE AS FREE AS A DOVE
    BE YOU … JUST YOU … AND I’LL BE PROUD
    AND ALWAYS KNOW YOU’RE LOVED.

    By K Wilde

  3. What a wonderful thing this is for you to have ..to replay and to know that you and he were so loved by each other that you needed few words in the end. Just time together in such a beautiful spot.

    My young adulthood was spent playing all of Neil diamond’s songs…am so happy to see this and picture Grandad there….instead of watching the world and its beauty…being a part of it now.

    Thank you so for sharing this dear Jan. Wish I could give you a hug.

  4. “The whole body from wingtip to wingtip is nothing more than your thought itself in a form you can see.”

    Quote from quite possibly my favourite book there, Jan. Richard Bach worked a small miracle with Jonathan Livingston Seagull. I still love it.

  5. Ok, brought my laptop to work and was able to see the vids tonight- I love the 2nd one. It was so nice of you and P to bring him out, I’m sure it was a treat for him to be out in the fresh air sipn’ on some tea with you! He sure was a great guy!

  6. They says the eyes are the mirror to the soul, but surely it is the hands that tell the story of life.
    This is a beautiful video, a wonderful memory you will always treasure.


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